Sunday, 20 November 2011

My first wedding fair ....

A couple of months ago I made the first real stepping to the weird world of weddings taking a trip over Hazlewood Castle in Tadcaster. We was running late to attend the wedding fair because I was coaching at my gym http://www.BradfordMMA.com and picking up Kath the mother in law to be :).

It was a fair old drive, taking around 45minutes to get there from Bradford City Centre, the longer the trip took the more we discussed it might not be the venue because of the distance .... but we went any way.

After playing chicken with Big Range Rovers on the way in to the grounds because of the single road in and out we arrived to a stunning garden and grounds.

When head up towards the entrance of the castle it be came clear how late we was .... most of the out door business had started to pack away .... including the hog roast sandwiches. I was gutted, although the it would be nice to view the place Marie and I tie our knot ... thought chance of free food and drink was the real draw for me to come.

There was a big tent out side, which possibly had more free food to try ... not all was lost, but for now we head inside the venue. Inside it was very Victorian, there was 2 main rooms which was used for the wedding, we really liked the Victoria compared to the other area, which was featured on the TV program 4 weddings (http://skyliving.sky.com/four-weddings-uk-meet-the-brides/meet-the-brides-5) ... I thought it looked like a front room and nothing special.


The main room for the wedding breakfast (still not sure why it is called that) was very nice, well apart from the  old picture on the wall over the fire place which had some old girl looking in to the room.... was not so keen on that.


We then went to the "Love Chapel" and this was the best part of the day (remember I had not been given and free food or drink yet) ... the chapel was very pretty and I could see my self getting married in there, there is a small picture below.


The Priest came over to talk to us, after he explained to us that the venue was not licensed to do the wedding we could have a blessing which could be done straight after the official wedding in the castle. He went of to say that the best part of this we can customise the blessing and make it personalised for us.

At this point I asked if he could "Rap" the wedding and enquired just how gangster he is, he broke out in to a little rap which ended "will you take this B*tch! I was very impressed with his free style skill as he had mad game, but Marie and I looked shocked that he swore. He was very good and the Chapel of love was brilliant.

OK ! enough .... yes the rapping Priest was brilliant, Yes the love Chapel is lovely but I have not driven all this way not to get free food. Marie and Kath went a wedding fair the week before and they got cupcakes .... damn it I WANT CUPCAKES! ... we headed to the big tent.

Inside at first glance there was very little in food, I panicked! There was 10 photographers and flower stuff .... wait ! A cheese stall !! Excellent it could not have been better, I bolted for the cheese stand while Marie and Kath stood trying to look interested at .... I have no idea .... I thought FREE CHEESE and ran.

I most of been stood like some crazy junkie trying to score ... because the cheese man would not make eye contact with me, I tried to pretend I was just looking .... I most of stood there for ages ... nothing ..... I walked away gutted  .... we won't be using your company you tight fisted ....

In conclusion .... The Outside of the Castle was very pretty, in side it was a little disappointing, the love chapel was excellent and the Priest was the BOMB .... WORD!

But it is going to be a little too far away for our guest and the cheese guy didn't give me any free samples

Check out there site:-

http://www.hazlewood-castle.co.uk/

Friday, 4 November 2011

Don't Tell the Bride ....

.... or any one else if that's your idea!!

Part of Marie and I preparation for our big day includes a weekly viewing of "Don't tell the Bride", as we settle down to watch the show with a cup of tea talk is usually around plans for the week, guest list and any visit planned to wedding fairs.

... But once the TV program starts we tend to sit in wonder with mouths wide open in amazement (and often letting our tea go cold) ... Seriously guys are you really that much of a tool! This weeks episode started with a guy who played football before getting an IT job and his bossy wife who the narrator kept calling a "want to be WAG".

If you no idea what "don't tell the bride" is, it is a TV program on BBC3 where a couple is given £12,000 and 3 weeks  to arrange the wedding, sounds like a good deal right? .... well it is until you read the small print. The groom has to arrange the wedding .... no contact with the bride at all.

Sound like a nightmare Ladies? Well in this weeks episode the Groom thought it would be a good idea to send his bride on a roller coaster on the day of here wedding and then sender to get her hair done while in here wedding dress. Would your better half do that girls?

As the program plays out Marie and I usually come to the same conclusion:-

1. I never want to buy a wedding dress for Marie
2. Marie never wants me to have full control of our wedding.

On Sunday we are taking the the mummys over to a wedding fair at Holdsworth house in Halifax .... Report to come :)

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Wednesday, 2 November 2011

Introduction

Hi

My name is Mark and I am getting married .... well at some point next year.

I have started this blog to document my journy through the confussing and baffling world of wedding planning. It is probably worth starting this blog with a small introduction of who I am:-

"Mark has a 2nd Degree Black Belt in Kick-Jitsu, 1st Degree Black Belt in KickBoxing, Brown Belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Brown Belt in Japanese Jui Jitsu, as well as grades in Karate. Mark is also a Qualified CYQ Level 3 Personal Trainer, CYQ Level 2 Fitness Instructor, Kettle Bell instructor and a full time Martial Arts Coach.

Mark has been Head Coach of the Fulinkazan Fight Team since 2004 and has competed in Mixed Martial Arts (MMA) at a professional level."
This is my professional bio I work as a personal trainer and full time coach at Team Fulinkazan Mixed Martial Arts in Bradford, West yorkshire. I spend most of my day throwing weights around and people around.

I have no experiance of weddings ... well apart from going to them and getting drunk so I thought I would document my experiance into the world of weddings.